Everything happens for a reason. Just because you have to physically let them go, doesnt mean you have to let them go emotionally. Consider it a blessing that this person was once in your life.To let go isn't to forget, not to think about, or to ignore. It doesn't leave feelings, anger, jealousy or reregret. Letting go isn't about how you appear, and it's not obsessing or dwelling on the past. Letting go isn't blocking memories, thinking sad thoughts, doesn't leave emptiness, hurt or sadness. It's not about defeat. To let go is to cherish the memories, but to overcome and move on. It is having an open mind confidence in the future. Letting go is learning and experiencing and growing. To let go is to made you cry and made you grow. It's about all that you have, all that you had, and all that you will soon gain. Letting go is having the courage and the strength to keep moving. Letting go is growing up.
Letting go and moving on is often what makes us stronger and happier. So, why we want to look back and feel the pain?
SIGN TO LET GO.
- Someone expects you to be someone you’re not. – Don’t change who you are for anyone!! It’s wiser to lose someone over being who you are, than to keep them by being someone you’re not.
- You find yourself forcing someone to love you. – Let us keep in mind that we can’t force anyone to love us. We shouldn’t beg someone to stay when they want to leave. That’s what love is all about – freedom. However, the end of love is not the end of life. It should be the beginning of an understanding that love sometimes leaves for a reason, but never leaves without a lesson. If someone truly loves you, they will never give you a reason to doubt it. Anyone can come into your life and say how much they love you, but it takes someone really special to stay in your life and prove how much they love you. Sometimes it takes awhile to find the right person, but the right person is always worth the wait.
- Someone continuously breaks your trust. – Love means giving someone the chance to hurt you, but trusting them not to. When you completely trust a person, without any doubt, you’ll automatically get one of two results - a FRIEND for life or a LESSON for life. Either way there’s a positive outcome. Either you confirm the fact that this person cares about you, or you get the opportunity to weed them out of your life and make room for those who do. In the end you’ll discover who’s fake, who’s true, and who would risk it all for you. And trust me, some people will totally surprise you.
- Someone continuously overlooks your worth. – Know your worth! When you give yourself to someone who doesn’t respect you, you surrender pieces of your soul that you’ll never get back. There comes a point when you have to let go and stop chasing some people. If someone wants you in their life, they’ll find a way to put you there. Sometimes you just need to let go and accept the fact that they don’t care for you the way you care for them. Let them leave your life quietly. Letting go is oftentimes easier than holding on. We think it’s too hard to let go, until we actually do. Then we ask ourselves, “Why didn’t I do this sooner?”
- You are never given a chance to speak your mind. – Sometimes an argument saves a relationship, whereas silence breaks it. Speak up for your heart so that you won’t have regrets. Life is not about making others happy. Life is about being honest and sharing your happiness with others.
- You are frequently forced to sacrifice your happiness. – If you allow people to make more withdrawals than deposits in your life, you will be out of balance and in the negative before you know it. Know when to close the account. It’s always better to be alone with dignity than in a relationship that constantly requires you to sacrifice your happiness and self-respect.
Last but definitely not least, the one thing you should never let go of is hope. Remember what you deserve and keep pushing forward.
